Love and Leisure, two words I have a hard time putting together. I have found it hard, sometimes, to still be a wife. Sometimes, I get so caught up in motherhood, taking care of my daughter, that I forget to prioritize being a wife as well. I end up feeling I’m not doing enough as a wife and then I begin to doubt myself as a mother.
Two weeks ago, my husband asked to take me on a date. We have wanted to go to this new spot in town, Hopscotch, and he wanted to take me. Of course, I said yes and arranged and sitter for our daughter. Thankfully, we have family where we live always willing to spend time with her.
When the day came, I wasn’t really feeling like going anymore. I had a lot on my mind; I was winding down from the work events the night before, feeling extremely tired. But I wanted to spend time with my husband, time that we don’t always get and it was so important to me. I got dressed up because that hasn’t been a thing for me lately. Did my makeup and put on some perfume. I wanted to look and smell my best for this wonderful man who consistently cares for me and our daughter.
Love: How the Date Went
We dropped of Lil’ Mama and we went on our date. We dropped her off a little early so we had time to do ur favorite thing together, drive through neighborhoods and look at the different houses. Our goal, this year, is to purchase a new home so we can grow our family. We like to look in different neighborhoods to see where we would love to grow and put down roots.
We then went to Hopscotch and enjoyed every bit of it. The drinks were amazing and the atmosphere, A1. Then we went to dinner at Din Thai Fung (so yummy). We had so much fun, just him and I. I realized that this is something we need to plan for but also stay consistent with.
Leisure: Time for your spouse
The point is, you have to make time for your spouse. When your kids are older and gone from your home, it’s just you and them. Take time to get to know them. Water and grow this relationship just like you would any other relationship. Show them they’re just as important as your child, or more. They deserve to be seen! Make sure you are giving them your time also.
